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Assimilation into Society


Good Morning and Happy Birthday Martin Luther King Jr.,

One of my favorite pastimes is reading other people’s blogs and getting some inspirations by them.  Some say that most of the blogs talk about the same things such as fashion, travel, food, music, and etc.  Why do we need so many blogs talking about the same things?  Everyone has a perspective on the common themes popularized on blogs today.  My pastor talked about tithing yesterday and how all things belong to the Creator and the Creator needs 10% of everything we have.    What stuck out is that we are a society that is based on individual wants which results in selfishness.  For example, when some women see a good looking woman or a woman that is perceived to be that way (i.e. celebrities, socialites, and etc.); they find a way to tear that woman down to satisfy their needs to be considered beautiful.  When the Creator made us, there wasn’t a one size fits all.  The Creator made all things in the likeness of Him which is multifaceted, beautiful, and beyond our comprehension.  There is enough beauty to go around from everyone.  Beauty comes from the Creator and it doesn’t belong just to the “it girl” of the week or the “most beautiful person of the year."
We are in a society that attempts to assimilate the individual into something or somethings that the individual will never naturally be able to do.  People starving themselves to be a size that they are naturally not, women straightening their hair and not realizing that the hair is being forced to do something that it doesn’t do and enlarging chests, lips, butts, cheeks, and pectorials, to look like people who force their bodies to do the same.   In my opinion, assimilation is a form of groupthink.  Being controlled by people who travel in packs and who force their beliefs of what is beautiful and what is not beautiful on the individual.

Blessings!!!!!!


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